There are 5 things or valuable lessons that I've learned throughout this amazing year.
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There are 10 things or valuable lessons that I've learned throughout this amazing year.
1) Say "NO" more often. Say "YES" less.
I'd say yes to the things that would help me to grow. I'd say no to the things that stopped my self-growth. I learned that sometimes you have to say yes to the unknowns. Even like you are afraid of the uncertainties in life. Saying yes means you are up for the struggles.
But if the struggles should let you grow into the whole new person. The struggles should be worth the pain. But sometimes we have to think wisely before we make a decision. Growing up means we are able to make our own decisions. It doesn't matter if the decisions are going to make us or break us. It's our own decisions.
Saying no is okay. We have to say no to things that no longer help us to grow. We have to say no to those people who used us for their benefits. We gotta say no to the conversations that we are no longer comfortable. It's okay to say no. We have to practice this in our daily lives.
2) DON'T ever get too comfortable.
I think it's always easy to get comfortable and happy when things are going good when what your heart's not fully in something and you're starting to lose interest, it's time to move on.
Don't ever get too comfortable with something and someone. There is something you need to work on along the journey and you shouldn't feel like everything is okay and fine.
There is always something to work on. There is always something I am lacking.
3) The struggle of being away from home.
Sometimes you have to know the real meaning of being away from home. You will cry yourself to sleep because you are missing home. But you know, in order to achieve great things, you just have to be apart with someone you love. I kinda glad I am away from home. I don't want to get too comfortable and I would end up not achieving anything in life.
4) It's normal to feel lost.
Feeling lost, it doesn't mean you are hopeless.
Breathe, sit down and relax. Don't compare to those people who have it all. Don't chase to become a better version of yourself. It takes time. And you should take your time to develop yourself.
It took me a really long time to be comfortable with my life. But back then, I am clueless about what's going to come next. But I learned to tell myself that it's okay to feel lost. This is a part of my journey to discover great things in life and I should be grateful that I still have time to develop myself. I trust in myself that I will be on the right track and I will be just fine.
These days, it's okay to feel lost. As long as we know, great things take time.
5) Embracing the loneliness.
Looking back I realized that I've grown so much compared to the person I was last year. Back then I was scared of a lot of things. I am not even able to be alone or else I will feel empty most of the time. Last year, I need to surround myself with a lot of people but this year is different. I enjoyed being alone. I enjoyed my "me" time. I love writing so I spent hours writing about things I love.
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